How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Is it okay for me to wear girls’ underwear?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why does Christianity push reconciliation after a partner cheats? Mine had a 7-year affair with someone half my age. He cheated and lied. He is not the same to me.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

That's it for today.

What if the girl says that drama about you dating here? Is that a bad sign?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

There's no way Republican Trump won all seven swing states. How was he able to cheat and steal the election?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Living to your full potential is a goal.